Engage: Small Steps To Make Emergence, Possible, Gently. We move together towards emergence through small, guided actions

I’m Suzanne — a mum, occupational therapist, and long-time listener to the quiet wisdom that families carry. Lead Together is a space where parents and young people lead, services follow, and your vision for your life and your family’s life is honoured from the start. You are the expert. I’m here to walk beside you.

Welcome here,

Last week we listened for the early stirrings of emergence. This week, our compass turns toward E — Engage: taking one small, strength-led step in the direction of what wants to emerge.

In Now and Next™, we don’t start with goals — we start with strengths.

What is already present in you? Patience? Curiosity? Steadiness? Creativity?

These are your green shoots. Engagement becomes much easier when it grows from what is already alive.

So this week, choose one strength — just one — and let it guide a tiny action. Mine this week is Hope, hope for a 2026 where we emerge from chaos into calm, even if for a few moments.

If you would like to complete a free survey on exploring strengths, click here.

If your strength is self-regulation, perhaps you begin the day with a slow stretch beside your child or partner. Honour your awareness of how your body feels as you wake, does tiredness linger or have you energy that will allow for a day of participating in what is important for you and your family.

If your strength is teamwork, you might create a small ritual that gives shape to a morning for you and your family.

If your strength is humour, bring a moment of silliness into an otherwise ordinary task.

As I wear my occupational therapist hat, I would see these actions as small adjustments that change the whole texture and movement of a day, honouring what is possible in your life today.

And here’s the secret:

Emergence isn’t created by grand resolutions. It is shaped by repetition — small, meaningful gestures that say,“I’m moving toward something.”

Notice what lights your family and those close to you up too.

Engage together if that feels possible: touch a leaf on a walk, name something you hope for this week, start a tiny daily moment that is just yours or make a colleague a cuppa and share a quiet moment before the next task begins.

Your step only needs to be small.

Movement is already enough.

A Glimpse Ahead

Next week, we’ll move toward “A”: Adapt — letting these emerging steps soften into the rhythm of being rather than doing.

Before you close this email, take a breath for yourself,

and a breath for those closest to you — not focusing on timetables, but where we can grow in spirals, not straight lines.

May your small steps feel kind.

May your strengths lead you gently forward.

And may the ladybird crawl out from a winter crevice, (I think of the limestone pavement crevices in the Burren here) testing the air, reminding us how beginnings happen — one tiny movement at a time.

Take all of the care,

Suzanne

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